Please don’t come over to my house with your snarky comments and attitude ever again.

You really have no clue of how I spend my days or whether or not I’m “flaky”. The way I spend my time does not need your approval. Whatever I decide to do has nothing to do with you. Whomever I date, does not need you criticisms. I certainly don’t need your criticisms.

I’m done with your insults and your half-truth blog as well. Is the reason I see you so much less really because I’m dating Allen? Or would it possibly have something to do with my mom having cancer? Or maybe that I have a new full-time job that I work at even more so than Brookstone?? Maybe it’s that I’m living in an art community and I want to use this opportunity to make as much art as I possibly can?? Am I really so FUCKING terrible because I just want to go home and sleep when I’m stressed from work? My life exists on multiple planes, not just hour by hour decisions on if I should hang out with you or allen.

You should be happy for me that I’m doing something with my life and that I’m happy! I’m with someone I love, I’m making art again, I have a well paying job- I haven’t figured out how to manage in a social life yet- but give me the space to explore and grow! I have never forgotten about you hence the phone calls, comments, few times we’ve hung out- and whether or not that is good enough for you is not my problem, because it’s the best I can do.

If and when you decide to be more understanding and less critical, come on over- I’ll have a drink ready for you. Otherwise, forget about it.